Friday, October 28, 2011

Adventures I

Roman numerals. Got to love them, since this is the first of many retellings of adventures I have had here.

My first foray into adventuring in Abu Dhabi ended up not getting me to my intended destination. But that's ok, I will get to Khalifa Park at some point (hopefully during Eid).

I don't actually fully know what Khalifa Park is because I never got there, so anything I say about it is second-hand. But apparently it has a train, and open space, and grass, and is a way to escape the NYUAD bubble and just be and think and breathe. I am not going to lie- it is hard sometimes being here. You are far away from home, trying to understand yourself and others, do well in academics, think about the future, all while trying to maintain a balance. It is a lot of pressure, and everyone goes through rough days. One day I just needed to get out of Sama, and go somewhere where I could be by myself and not see anyone I know. A sophomore had told me about Khalifa and how to get there, and I set off. Well, the thing is, there are official and unofficial bus stops in Abu Dhabi. The official ones actually have the buses coming (around) when they say. The unofficial ones, which have a sign and some buses that do stop there, might not actually get all of the buses the signs say. And say, perchance, that the bus you need only comes every hour. It might result in you standing at an unofficial bus stop for an hour and a half, seeing the bus number you need go on all the streets but the one you are on. And then you might decide to try this adventure another day. But it still got me out of Sama and space to think. So it was worth it.

Another adventure was finding the naan place. I knew where it was because I had seen it on our out-to-lunch with an RA. (Random side-note- the RA's here are amazing). It just took me a while to find it- I ended up wandering all around the area behind Sama, finding everything but the naan place. Eventually I found it (I had seen it leaving the Golden Spoon restaurant, not on the way there like I thought). I then proceeded to get things to make pizza with it (I miss cooking). And it was awesome. But now whenever I go again to try to get naan they are always closed. So it is an adventure every time.

There is a list in one of the rooms of "existential crisis purchases". I would like to preface this story by saying that this is on the list, but I don't think it should be. I have wanted a ukelele for a while, and they didn't have ukulele's. They had half-size children's guitars and normal guitars. I have a guitar at home, and debated bringing it, but didn't. But now I have a guitar here :) And apparently it is a sign of an existential crisis. But the real adventure was not purchasing a guitar, it was finding the music store. I googled Abu Dhabi music stores, and found one called AKM Music. I had a general location (there are no street addresses here, which is an adventure in itself when you want to find/go somewhere), and was trying to find someone to go with me. I (thought) I had failed at that attempt because everyone was working. But then on my way out I ran into Luka and Connor who weren't doing anything. And I convinced them that this would be a lot more fun than going back to their rooms and surfing the internet thinking they should be working or doing something. We took a taxi to Crowne Plaza, which is the hotel that the store is behind (there are main streets that taxis go on, and then you can walk back into other streets and areas from there). Now, because of that city set-up, "behind Crowne Plaza", and 'look for a yellow sign' isn't that much to work from. We wandered the wrong way, back again, and then eventually found the store. And found out it didn't open for another half hour. Again, because none of us had anything better to do (actually we did, because there is always something that needs to be done, but we were productively procrastinating), we decided to wait for it to open. There was another al-Safa nearby, so we walked to that, bought a jug of apple juice, and sat on the curb talking for a half hour. It was one of those moments where you really appreciate the journey.

The Abu Dhabi Film Festival is kind of a big deal. And they have outdoor screenings, which I thought was really cool. I went to go see The Temple, a story about India, and revelation, and faith, and exploitation, and religion. It was such a good movie- one that makes me want to take a film class, even though I cringe whenever I think of editing a film. But the atmosphere made a good movie even better. I was sitting outside, next to part of the Arabian Gulf, across from me the lit-up Sheik Zayed Grand Mosque, a cool breeze, and then comes the best part. I looked up, and saw 3 stars peeking through the haze. It was the first time I saw stars since I got here.

So many adventures, and this is only the start. Next up: Oman

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The Little Things

One thing I have realized is that the little things matter most. So here are some of the little things that I am really thankful for right now.

  • Letters. Not emails, not facebook messages, but actual handwritten letters. It is a shame they have gone out of style, because they mean so much- I think if people actually wrote letters, then they would realize how important they are. It shows someone has taken the time to sit down, think about what they are going to say, handwrite it, and get it to a mailbox. That is so much more dynamic than sitting at a desk illuminated by a computer screen. 
  • Making time for music. Just blasting a song I love and dancing around my dorm room. Or taking the time to strum my guitar a bit, trying to work on chords and transitions. 
  • Conversations. Everyone here has something to share, some ability to help put things in perspective in your own life (or to just make you laugh after a hard day).
  • Family. And by this I don't mean the narrow term of the family you were born into (though, in my case, that is an amazing, loving group of people). I also mean the family we create, the people we choose to spend our time with and the people we take our masks off in front of. Being here, so far away from home, we really have created an ohana. And ohana means family. Family means no one gets left behind, or forgotten. (From Lilo and Stitch. A perfect example of this new-formed family of NYUAD is when Laura and I were just hanging out in Sachi's room, and we looked up the clip of this part of Lilo and Stitch (I found out I didn't have the first movie with me, only the second :( ) and we just sat there tearing up, thinking about family, and realizing that we aren't alone here. We are forced to trust each other more and have less of a wall. It is a good thing, it can just be scary at times)
  • 1 dirham naan. Not only does it force me to walk outside of Sama, it is fresh-baked naan for $0.27USD. And it is sooooo good. So good. 
  • Stickie notes. Our room often leaves notes for each other about random things at random times, and it is awesome. I have taken up the habit in others rooms as well. 
  • Hardcover notebooks. They are so much better than spiral bound or sewn, but in the US they are really expensive and difficult to find. Not here :) 
  • Going to the beach and swimming in the Arabian Gulf for the first time (it only took me 2 months!)
  • Sparkly purple nail polish
  • Hearing the Imams call to prayer drifting through the air, giving the city a sacred ancient note, contrasted sharply with the modernity everywhere else
  • Getting a "you've got mail" email. Because that means something physical from a loved one really far away. Like a letter. Did I mention I love letters? (And I do write back :)
  • Having words which everyone cringes/laughs at when they hear, because they are so overused. For example- modernity. cosmopolitan. world honors college. diversity. global citizen. 
  • Being appreciative of people. Always saying thank-you with a smile, asking 'how are you?' and meaning it
  • Eccentric professors
  • Being able to go to someones room and just talk, or get away from an essay, or hang out and learn from each other
  • Exploring, connecting, and adventuring.
There are so many more that aren't on this list. And the list keeps growing everyday. I am so blessed to be here, and I try to live up to that every day.

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Autumn

Autumn holds many meanings for me. I grew up in either northern Vermont or New Hampshire, so with the end of summer came the lengthening of nights, the turning of leaves, and another year on this earth.

For the first time ever, I am away from home during fall. For the first time ever, I am living in a city- I see dust and concrete (and fake green). I never really appreciated the beauty of the leaves- they were always just there, and because of that I took them for granted. Not this year. I miss the leaves. I miss the turning of the air from the Vermont summer to something sharper, infused with change. Those are little things, but something that grew to be a part of me. Memories of places are strong- if I close my eyes and think about it, I can transport myself back home, to the dirt roads and the forests. Fall is my favorite season, and it doesn't really exist where I am right now. I don't know where my travels will take me, but I know that at some point, I will cross paths with Vermont in the fall again.

This post is actually really outdated by this point, but the ideas are the same. I turned 19 in September. And that is a weird birthday. Because you don't get any more legal rights (voted last year! woo-hoo!), but a shift still occurs. You start to feel old. You realize that oh-my-gosh-I'm-almost-twenty. Two decades. It is the time when people expect you to have a plan, begin to actually figure things out. And at least for me, that isn't really true. I am willing to go where life decides to take me, pursue my passions and hope for the best. You also begin to take more responsibility, but also begin to gain a confidence that comes with time and independence.

Who knows. These ideas could have come simply from partaking in the adventure that is NYUAD. Being 19 could have nothing to do with it. But thinking that I am only a year from 20 puts things in perspective. Life happens once, you have to (as cliche as this is), live with no regrets.

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Thursday, October 20, 2011

The Past Few Weeks

In all honesty, I should probably be doing homework. But in reality, I know that in the next hour and a half, I will not accomplish anything even with the best intentions because 1) It is Thursday, and 2) After having 3 classes and actually doing stuff during the day, I generally end up relaxing in this gap before going to capoeira.

Today I decided to be productive in a way, and catch up on some blogging, since right now one of the main purposes of this blog is to keep family and friends back home up-to-date with MLIAD (my life in Abu Dhabi).

I haven’t written in a while because things have gotten a bit hectic here. It is midterms week, and while I don’t have any official midterms, I did have an Arabic quiz and I have papers either due or needing to be started for all of my other classes. One thing I am looking forward to is to have a more creative schedule next semester- right now I have Arabic, and then the other 3 are all just a lot of reading and writing.

Because of the lack of creativity in my classes, I am trying to be involved with the artsy scene that is here. And for me, since I don’t really draw/paint/play an instrument well/sing (in the formats they have here), that means theatre. The thing is, I am not (currently) enrolled in any of the theatre classes. Since a lot of the opportunities are only for people who are in the classes, have taken the classes, or know the professor, my options for breaking into the theatre world were limited. Luckily, the professor is really nice, and after sending him an email, I am now on the list for all the theatre things. J One awesome experience was getting to see an open rehearsal for a new piece that is in the works.

That was right after the opening night for Floor Wars, a year long, multifaceted competition between the floor. I am on the 8th floor, and our theme is Super 8 (superheroes). Another part of that competition was open mic night, where each floor put on an act. We decided to do a skit. Now, if you knew me in high school, you would know my view on student skits for competitions like this. I helped early on, through the years began to just act in them, and then finally I separated myself from the skits altogether. They just never ended well. And while I can say that Super 8’s skit was a lot better than anything from high school, the thing about being here is that people remember the skit the next day, even 2 weeks later. They will bring it back up. Consider yourself warned.

It might seem like I have a lot of time, but this past weekend (one I will fondly remember as the one where almost everything needed to be explained, for instance I built a fort and put Remi's phone in the fridge because I didn’t know how to silence it, and Tessa went to Bible Camp in Dubai) was the first that I really got to hang out with people at all outside of studying and class. We (and when I say ‘we’ I mean Farah but I was there), hosted an Arabic coffee party, and I got to have some nice conversations with people about things not related to grades, midterms, or J-Term.

Ah. J-Term. It is a class that we take for 3 weeks intensively in January. There is a ranking process, and I got my 3rd choice, a creative writing course called Tales of Love and Death. I know it will be an awesome class, and I have always wanted to take a creative writing course but there were always schedule conflicts, but the process as to who got what course didn’t seem super logical. Still a bit disappointed that I didn’t get into the photojournalism class, but I will be learning vicariously through my friends who did get in.

Right now the Abu Dhabi Film Festival is going on. I have seen 2 films, Tahrir 2011 on the Egyptian revolution and The Temple, a commentary through narrative on faith and power. Both were amazing, and something that reminded me that I wasn’t at home is that people react to the movies here- very much like in a concert after someone finishes a solo, there is some clapping, the same happens here when an idea resonates with the audience.

Originally I was planning on going to Nepal during Eid break, but I didn’t realize that the amazingly low price tickets were part of a sale. This ended up working out in my favor, because I am going on a dhow snorkeling trip in Oman, and then because my friend and I will still have those visas, we are flying into Muscat, Oman for a few days (because of frequent flier miles the tickets cost a total of $35 USD, which is nothing compared to the cost of a bus both ways from Dubai to Muscat which takes 8 hours (time and $ cost). Then we are coming back after around 4 days, hanging around Abu Dhabi, and then going to a Brittany Spears concert.

Yes. You read that right J A lot of the students here won tickets, and I am going. Seeing as a lot of my cassettes and my first CD was Brittany Spears, it will be cool/interesting/kinda weird to see her in concert years later.

I was going to write a bunch about Arabic, but the summary is: I am slowly getting a hang of the language, I can write about me and my family and friends with limited use of a dictionary, and our class went out to Arabic breakfast this morning after my roommate decided to also get Arabic breakfast food (they were both different, and both AWESOME). I don’t love ‘traditional’ breakfast food, and so this was really good. And my class is really fun to be around, so it was a nice, non-stressful class the day after a quiz.

Off to the last capoeira class with this group. I have been here 7 weeks already. Which is weird to think about. 

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Monday, October 3, 2011

Discs in the Moonlight

Ok, so posting this now is going to mess up the chronology of this blog, because I have a backlog of things to write, but whatever :)

I played one year of girls varsity Ultimate Frisbee in high school. Senior year, there were too many conflicts, and I decided to keep my job at Nat Prov and act in The Crucible. I made the right choice, but I've missed playing Ultimate.

Because you are just running and throwing and catching and pivoting and turning and not thinking and just playing.

After the chaos of the past month that was really, really, really nice.

It was drills, but that was good to get me back into practice- I still have my forehand, but my backhand needs work (basically opposite the normal because I am left-handed)

I still remember how to do all the running/turning/pivoting drills, so that was good.

But it is really hot here. And we were outside. I think by the end I was slightly dehydrated, and was completely drenched in sweat.

It was amazing.

We were outside, in the field of a local school, under the lights, and under the moon. There were a bunch of people there, from all ages and skills (I was one of the youngest there). And people from all over! Mainly expats, but then there was one of the professors from one of last year's J-Terms (I wasn't here (obviously), but the other student from NYUAD who went had her as a teacher).

This was one of the first times where I was able to just step back, and think "Wow, this is surreal. what I am doing is surreal". I mean, I was playing Ultimate, in the Middle East, in the moonlight, with an amazingly diverse group of women.

Next time playing should be Saturday for a pick up game (the drills are women-only, but the pickup games are mixed) :) Then one more practice/drill, and pickups every Saturday and Wednesday. I know I won't be able to make all of them, but those are days in which my evenings can be clear on a regular basis.

Now I just need to find a pair of cleats :)

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